Brain Storms Ep 13: The Fixer

Welcome to episode 13 of Brainstorms, hosted by Rich and featuring the amazing Alyssa. In this episode, Rich and Alyssa delve into the concept of being a "fixer"—someone who has a natural inclination to solve problems for others, whether in friendships, work relationships, or personal relationships.

Rich shares his personal experiences and struggles with the fixer mentality, including the challenge of knowing when to simply listen rather than offer solutions. Alyssa provides insights into the broader implications of this personality type, exploring how it relates to empathy, personality traits, and the need for boundaries.

The conversation also touches on the importance of allowing others to face their own challenges and the value of being present and supportive without always stepping in to fix things. They discuss the discomfort of confrontation, the necessity of embracing failure, and the significance of persistence in achieving success.

Join Rich and Alyssa as they navigate these complex topics with humor and honesty, offering valuable advice for anyone who identifies as a fixer or knows someone who does. Tune in and discover how to balance the impulse to help with the need to respect others' autonomy and growth.